I am married and I flirted with this aspiring model I met on Twitter. I thought I had all this evil life of mine under control. I admit, I am an amazing liar. Until my wife kept hearing the sound for a message notification on my iPad. I wasn't home and she was curious to why so many notifications. I get home and I knew what was wrong just by the tears on her face. It is the worst feeling in the world. Because of my lying, trust is going to be hard. I know I failed God when I promised in His house that I would be faithful and loving to her until we die, but I know He can help us out. But please for anyone who is doing something similar, don't do it. although you can't physically be close to the person you are flirting with, it hurts your significant other. Please pray for us.