Spouses - Confessions

hi my name is debora ,I'm suffering a lot because my husband is porn's addict and he doesnt want help he said that he is not addict and if he want he can stop..he doesnt want to do sex with me ,i dont know want to do...in this case what can i do ? he see porn movie and he masturbate byhimself ,i know that because i always find his cholths dirty sperm and many times he wants to wash his cloths byhimself...what can i do..i pray im christian too but i dont know what to do...help me .